feat(platform-api): multi-audience JWT + Partner CRUD + tenant lifecycle (O.2)

JwtAuthGuard now accepts a comma-separated AUTHENTIK_AUDIENCE
('dezky-portal,dezky-operator'). jose.jwtVerify takes an array and succeeds
on any match — both customer-portal and operator-portal tokens validate
against this service. Per-endpoint guards restrict further.

New OperatorGuard enforces operator-only mutations:
  1. JWT audience claim includes 'dezky-operator' (proof from the token
     alone that this is a privileged session)
  2. ActorService-resolved User has platformAdmin=true (DB check so
     revocation works without waiting for the token to expire)
Both required; either alone is insufficient.

Partner module:
  - Partner schema: slug, name, domain, status, marginPct, contactInfo,
    billingInfo. marginPct is one number per partner (decided in grilling)
  - CRUD endpoints under @UseGuards(JwtAuthGuard, OperatorGuard) — every
    partner mutation requires operator scope
  - GET /partners returns each row with a computed customers count from
    aggregating Tenant.partnerId. MRR aggregation deferred until
    Subscription gains a price column
  - GET /partners/:slug/tenants for the partner detail view
  - DELETE soft-terminates (status='terminated') — never hard-delete
    because tenants may still reference the partner

Tenant changes:
  - partnerId?: Types.ObjectId (ref Partner, indexed sparse) added to
    Tenant schema
  - UpdateTenantDto accepts partnerId so PATCH can attach/detach
  - POST /tenants/:slug/suspend and /resume — operator-only via
    OperatorGuard. PATCH already covers plan/domains/partnerId changes

Smoke test: customer-portal session sends POST /api/partners through the
portal proxy → 403 "This endpoint requires an operator-scoped token". The
positive test (operator-token → 200) waits for O.3 when there's an
operator app to mint the right token.

apps/portal/server/api/partners/index.post.ts is a temporary verification
proxy — delete once the operator portal exists.

services/platform-api/src/auth/auth.module.ts

@@ -3,10 +3,11 @@ import { MongooseModule } from '@nestjs/mongoose'
 import { User, UserSchema } from '../schemas/user.schema.js'
 import { ActorService } from './actor.service.js'
 import { JwtAuthGuard } from './jwt-auth.guard.js'
+import { OperatorGuard } from './operator.guard.js'
 
 @Module({
   imports: [MongooseModule.forFeature([{ name: User.name, schema: UserSchema }])],
-  providers: [JwtAuthGuard, ActorService],
-  exports: [JwtAuthGuard, ActorService],
+  providers: [JwtAuthGuard, OperatorGuard, ActorService],
+  exports: [JwtAuthGuard, OperatorGuard, ActorService],
 })
 export class AuthModule {}